Good mornin' ladies! Good news! Donnie and Andy are going to get the tables and chairs for the basement this evening. The Fitzhugh twins are doing well, but please still keep them in your prayers.
This is for all parents, Sunday school teachers, those who work with kids,grandparents, or are around them (EVERYONE!!)
CHALLENGING A CHALLENGING CHILD
"I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord. They are plans for peace and not disaster, plans to give you a future filled with hope." -Jeremiah 29:11
He was the terror of the Sunday School. All of the teachers shuddered at thoughts of this disruptive boy being promoted into their Sunday School class. All but one. She didn't tremble at his misbehavior; she observed his character. Studying him, she noted he had an exceptionally bright mind, a quick wit and an incredible memory. She challenged this challenging boy to memorize scripture. He did. No longer a loser, he won scripture memory awards and free trips to scripture memory summer camps. Today, he is a pastor noted for his quiet, gentle spirit. He uses his bright mind, quick wit and incredible memory to serve the Lord. God had a plan, a hope, and a future for the terror of the Sunday School.
Mothers of Sunday School terrors can feel hopeless. The despair of raising challenging children can blind our eyes to the good qualities God has placed in each child. However, sometimes there is just no energy left in our tired bodies to focus on anything but our own fatigue.
During these "end-of-my-rope" moments, we need to wake up and attack. But first, we need to prepare for battle. Arm yourself with pen and paper. choose the right time for the confrontation, preferably when your little demon looks more like an angel. I suggest while the child is sleeping. Focus on your child and write every good character trait and ability you have ever seen in your little or big one. Read it often. Display it for all to see. Add to the list as years go by. As you and your challenging child focus more on good qualities than bad, everyone will be surprised at the positive changes. And, I expect, you'll be winning more of the challenges.
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